Eight years ago today I left the marital home “with just the clothes on my back and the cat under my arm”, and spent the night in a hotel. The next day I was allowed to move into a house I’d already started the rental process on (“just in case”). Six months later I bought that house, and I loved it to death.
It was such a sweet, comforting house that seemed to put its arms around you and give you a cuddle. It still does.
But a week ago last Saturday I closed that house and moved into the poet’s. We’d been living in two houses for several months and the disruption for the animals was causing me some heartache. I was also unable to settle to any work as I never seemed to be in one place long enough.
The poet’s house is bigger than mine, so it made sense, although we will be looking for somewhere we’ve both chosen in the coming months. It has a garden too, whereas mine has just a yard.
Meanwhile, the animals have settled and so has my work – and we’re saving so much money on petrol, heating bills and just buying one lot of shopping, etc, too. At the weekend we even did some baking together – the poet made bread while I made fruit buns, and I whipped up a green jelly too.
And we’re working on a freezer challenge (what-can-we-eat-from-the-freezer-for-a-week?) so that we can move his fridge/freezer into the garage (for his fishing tackle) and mine can come over (it won its own mine’s-better-than-yours battle).
It’s been an emotional and slightly traumatic week, but it’s working. And by the end of last week, work started to pour in again – which really supports the case for the law of attraction.
I know I’ve also said it before, many times, but cosmic ordering really, truly rocks. I “placed my order” with the universe a couple of weeks ago and then forgot about it. And while I may have been a little greedy (I’ve not asked for anything for a long time …), it is all starting to come in.
Anyway, “mumbo-jumbo” out of the way, whether you believe in it or not, life’s pretty good at the moment, and it seems to get better every day. Time to start tackling a few unpleasantries in life again, perhaps …
Here, then, is this week’s to do list (those of a nervous disposition may wish to turn away now …):
- surf job boards daily x 5 √√√
- daily competitions x 5 √√
write and submit walks report to 6 local newspapers√
- write blog x 3 √√
- walk dog daily x 5 ×√
- write 1,000 words per day x 5 √×√
final check through non-fiction history book before …√ … send non-fiction history book to print√
- tackle new debt management plan daily x 5 (unpleasantry #1) √√
- daily banking x 5 √√√
- edit new non-fiction history book before …
- … send new non-fiction history book back to author via publisher
upload gig list for February√
- explore gig list Facebook page
- diary work
- proofread new YA book before …
- … send new YA book back to author
- invoices (hurrah!)
- trip to Birmingham
What’s on your to do list this week?